Bussiness
I moved from New York to Portugal for graduate school. I fell in love, got engaged, and have no plans to move back to the US.
I grew up in New York, graduated from the University of Michigan with a bachelor’s degree in economics in 2015, and then moved to Boston for work.
After the 2016 elections, I began to feel anxious about my safety. That’s when I startedseriously considering moving abroad. I just needed to find the right opportunity.
I knew a student visa would make it easier to move, so I thought, why don’t I apply to graduate school abroad?
Most people think graduate school is onlyworth it if it can propel their careers forward. However, I saw it as a way to gain valuable life experience and keep me in the same career field.
I had a few requirements: The degree had to be business-related, taught in English, and American-accredited. It also had to be in a country with a lower cost of living so that I could pay for my degree without taking loans.
In the winter of 2018, I found the right program. It was a two-year Masters of Science in Business program at Catlica Lisbon School of Business & Economics.
At that time, the program cost around 14,300 euros, which I had in savings.
In August 2019, I moved to Lisbon. Although I had traveled to other parts of Europe, I had never visited Portugal. I went purely on the faith thatif I wasn’t happy there, I’d return to New York once I graduated.
I got really lucky that I ended up loving it. Lisbon instantly gave me a Los Angeles vibe. The weather was hot, but the beaches were beautiful. Everyone had a relaxed attitude, and people weren’t on edge like they were in New York.
I didn’t intend to stay
Portugal has a post-graduation work visa that grants international students a year of residence to find employment. After being on the visa for a year, I registered as a freelancer on a regular work permit and have worked as a social media manager since.
My family was surprised by my decision to stay. My dad told me that when my grandparents ask about me, he hasto remind them that I live in another country now. But I still return a few times a year for Christmas or special occasions.
I’m planning a wedding in Portugal
In 2022, I met my fianc through TikTok. He’s Portuguese and commented on one of my videos. After two years, we moved in together in Nazar, a beach town an hour and a half away from Lisbon.
We’re planning our wedding in Portugal for August next year. We picked a venue an hour and a half away from Porto in the countryside. It’s a gorgeous historic building built in the 1700s, and we’re super excited about it.
The venue willcost $3,500 for a two-day rental, offering us the chance to have an affordable wedding.
Sometimes, I tease my fianc with the idea that once I get my Portuguese passport, we can move to Greece or elsewhere in Europe.
For now, we dream of living in Lisbon and having a summer vacation house in Greece. From the relaxed way of life, lower cost of living, and the fact that I can work remotely as a freelancer, it just makes more sense to have my life here.
I’m definitely planning on staying for the long term.